I guess everyone knows it is now the New Year in China. The year of the Rabbit. The Chinese believe that with the new year comes new goals, new dreams and a new life. I am sure there are fireworks being shot off everyday and evening as is customary in China. I know that families are gathering together for dinners, drinking wine and playing Mahjong. Which is also the way they celebrate the New Year. However, this year is different for me because I am currently in the states. I decided to come and visit my family for a couple of weeks during this year’s new year holiday.
I never thought I would say this but I miss all the noise, all the fireworks and all the excitement that is happening right now in China. I came home to visit my friends and family after being away for so long and I am not so sure what I expected but it is not what I got.
Oh.. yes, I am very happy to see my children and new grandchild and I am very excited to see my Japanese friends, my close friends and my cousins that always keep me rolling with their jokes. I see the new foods that have been introduced, the new kinds of soda and the new kinds of electronic toys. By the way as a side note, when did they create all the different flavors of pop tarts? (ice cream sundae, and caramel cream among others) I went to a couple of clubs and was not impressed especially when they started playing 80’s music (I’m a long way from the vibrating dance floor) and everything is familiar and well boring.
It seems in the 3 years I have been gone that the people have aged 20 years. Everyone is stressed and worried about money. People just seem like they have been beat up and broke down. It is like I have been living in another world all this time and I just stepped back into the time machine to the future.
I guess it didn’t help that there was a blizzard 3 days after I got here and I was stuck in the house for a couple of days. However, I think what makes this all the worse is the fact that my husband is still in China. We try to talk when we can online through skype and QQ, but I just miss him beside me in bed and making jokes with me. I miss his energy and his youth… I miss his laughter and his happiness.
I realized a lot on this trip back home. One is that my kids are doing fine and living their life very well without me here.Two is that most people don’t care about what is going on in your life because they are so worried about theirs. Three is that home is truly where your heart is and right now my heart is in China. Four for me the world is aging but I am not. I am the same as I have always been full of energy and wanting to experience life.
I guess no matter where you move be it abroad or just in another city or state after a while that place becomes a home to you. No matter how some things irritate you or rub you the wrong way; it feel like that place is home and you want to get back there.
My husband and I are planning to move back to the states soon (that is if we can get jobs), and now I am wondering if that is a good idea. The economy in China is better and I have made some really good friends there that are almost like family. However, the quality of life is better in America and real family and close friends are here. There are always decision to be made in life no matter how old you get, huh?
I think I owe it to my husband to bring him to the states and let him experience the change for a while, so we will probably still follow that plan to move back to the states (to Florida) but I wonder… if we move back… will he become more American and I miss China so much that I will want to move back? Strange how things work out isn’t it? Funny how living abroad makes you change… they say reverse culture shock… I say… self-realization.
until Next time…..
- Starbucks Celebrates Chinese New Year with “World is China” (penn-olson.com)
- Happy Chinese New Year – Year of the Rabbit! (adafruit.com)
- China, happy new year! (calypsocrystal.com)
- McDonalds, Pepsi & Coca-Cola Celebrate Chinese New Year (advertising.chinasmack.com)
- Chinese New Year: Fun ways to celebrate the ancient tradition (gadling.com)
- 230 million head home for Chinese New Year (independent.co.uk)
- Photos: East Asia celebrates Chinese New Year (news.nationalpost.com)
- Chinese New Year of the Rabbit start with firework displays across the globe (dailymail.co.uk)
- Chinese New Year of the Rabbit firework displays across the globe (dailymail.co.uk)