Due to the lack of “good Chinese men” available there has been a big influx of dating shows on Chinese TV. There is always a dating show somewhere on TV that you can watch and get inspired to find your special someone.
At first glance, these shows seem just like American dating shows. There are a group of beautiful, women lined up with numbers attached to them. Sometimes you can see their faces, sometimes they hold Halloween Masks, and sometimes they are behind white screens and you only see their outlined shape. But the entire premiss is usually about the same. Boy sees girls…… Boy tells girls his job, money and background…… Boy sings stupid love song and dances like Michael Jackson…… Girls cry at the beauty of it….. Boy picks the most beautiful girl.
I personally find these shows a bit cheesy and unrealistic and several Chinese dating shows have been censored for being too materialistic. They are usually singing, badly, dancing strangely… or playing some very, silly game.
The Wall Street Journal‘s Lisa Movius stated that dating show If You Are the One “featured a panel of 24 single women who brutally interrogated and often hastily rejected a succession of individual bachelors” and included a contestant who “became the Snooki of China by misquoting the Patrizia Reggiani quip: ‘I would rather weep in a Rolls-Royce than be happy on a bicycle.’“
It seems that the government censors aren’t too happy… They have stepped in to regulate the show If You Are the One and other shows, prohibiting them from sensationalize-ing unhealthy and incorrect perspectives on marriage and love, such as money worship. I personally agree with the government on this one. Some of these shows get out of hand, with the women drilling the men about their family background and material things.
The men in China have started to look down, for younger, poorer and dumber women, while women are demanding men better than them. For example, a man of 40 with an apartment can get women 25 on up, while women won’t want someone lower. This leaves a lot of men to be single for the rest of their lives, such a waste.
One man on a television report stated… roughly translated by my husband… that all the city girls here are two million rmb girls, these old virgins of 26 to 40. They just want the house and the car, not the man. Rural girls are cheaper, but even they require a house. However, after you think about it .. is this any different from in America and their dating shows? or America period?
I even saw a show the other night that had all foreign men looking for Chinese girls to date and marry. The guys could speak Chinese pretty well and many of them asked the question: Why they would want to date a foreign man. The answers ranged from handsome to kind to rich. There were even some Black men on the panel…. which actually surprised me. Unfortunately, the only show I have seen that has foreign women on … are ones that are already married to Chinese men and they are doing a Newlywed kind of game. I guess there is no dating game for us foreign women yet. We will get there… I will keep working on it. (smile)
Funny enough, one dating show even featured a suspected murderer. I guess he had enough money to be a good catch so they put him on the show. This is where a background check would have been important.
39-year old music teacher Liu Hao was a contestant on the Chinese dating show “Happy League” in northeast China. Using his singing talents to win over a young woman, beating out seven other men, he finally swayed her with his rendition of the running man to techno music. Priceless!
Unfortunately for the “lucky lady” who chose him, Liu Hao was actually Wu Gang, a suspected serial killer responsible for the stabbing death of a man outside a restaurant in Jilin thirteen years ago. A viewer saw him on the show and gave an anonymous tip. Crimestoppers strikes all the way over here, awesome!
Although, there are is a lot of crazy singing, silly dancing, and brutal questions… every now and then you will see a couple that actually look good together .. and you can hope that they really love each other, well as much as you can on a dating show, and they will get married and have a beautiful and happy life….Well, I can always dream can’t I?
until next time….
- Chinese Dating Show Unknowingly Features Suspected Murderer (weirdasianews.com)
- Guest Post: China Dolls By Meggin Sanez (lifebehindthewall.wordpress.com)
- New Dating Advice Website Shows Men Easy Ways to Meet Women (prweb.com)
- Breaking Down the Asian Man Myths (lifebehindthewall.wordpress.com)
- This new dating show is GENIUS! (heatworld.com)
- Tammie Harrison: My Life as a Chinese Dating-Game Star (online.wsj.com)
- Chinese Dating Website Grooms New Pay Model (allthingsd.com)
- New Chinese Slang……Can you dig it? (lifebehindthewall.wordpress.com)