Yield Not to Temptation

So here’s the problem… China has too many single men.  Now, Now hear me out..Being a vibrant, mature woman like myself.  Does not make me immune to what is around me.  In China, there is literally a culinary buffet of single men all around you when you walk out of the house.  These men are not shy about their admiration of foreign women. No matter your size, color or nationality.

I know you have all heard the stories that Chinese men do not like foreign women, blah, blah, blah…. that may be in the states.  In the states they have been brainwashed by the media, stereotypes, and random crazy women.. to pretty much stay away from us.  Especially, Black women… we always get the bad rap.   However, in China… I am always shocked to find men that admit their attraction to me.

Now my husband has his little sexy going on, mind you … but ..oooowwww  Child… sometimes I walk down the street and see the sexiest men.. that I have to literally stop, turn around and look again.

For those of you that don’t know, Chinese men come in all shapes and sizes… depending on what part of China they are from.

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They come in all ages, colors, and styles.  My husband is from Zheijiang Province; they grow them kind of small down here.  They are a little more petite, and thin.  If you’re a big girl like myself.. there will be a considerable size difference.   But they are very sexy, fashionable and a little metro in their style.  Always, have the latest of the latest in everything. and have the tendency to color their hair and wear it in longer styles.

If you go a little farther North… they start growing.. I don’t know if the cold weather makes them pack on the pounds and the height.. but they start getting stronger.   They tend to favor the look of  your jocks, with the short hair cuts, and athletic build.   They tend to be a little darker, and have swimmer bodies.   Nice smooth… muscular swimmer’s bodies….(sorry… I’m back) … They usually stand about a foot or two taller than the men in this area.

And if you head toward Mongolian area… upper China… you will see men that do not even look Chinese….They have facial hair, and are built like Mac Trucks…. they have muscles for miles… and usually lean-to the crewcuts.. and body building.   They stand six ft or taller and they just  are…very, man-ly…. They are very outdoorsy and … look tough…. and  yummy. Some do not have Asian eyes… it is from mixing with the Russsians up  there.

Wayyyy down South, they start getting dark skinned… the sun of course… but they have that golden brown look and dark wavy hair … they are wiry in build and tend to be smaller in size…

The best part about China is that people from the North usually end up down here in the Southern part of China looking for work… so you can see various kinds of men walking the street… and since the Chinese women are so picky about husband requirements… 80% of them are single…. and free… (ahem.. unlike myself….)

I am not saying all women rush to China to get a man.. because of course there is more to a man than just his …physical attributes… but… If you want to take a little eye candy vacation… this is definitely the place to come.   I know many people do not find Asian men attractive… but Damn….even some of the beggars look good.

I have not yielded to temptation no matter how willing they are to bring me to the dark side… but … I must apology to my husband…. I have had lust in my heart … (ummm… several times) ….please forgive me. But.. a girl has to admit when there is some beautiful standing in front of her… Amen, Amen.

until next time….


22 thoughts on “Yield Not to Temptation

  1. Pingback: Yeah, But I Am Not Chinese! « Life Behind The Wall

  2. I remember after one week of being there, my whole crew of study abroad was like, “Did you just see that hot guy? Time to get a Chinese man to “study”.” ahahahaha

    And I notice that a lot of the men in the military were lookin pretty good. Koreans on the other hand make me miss China. Their military guys are not worth a second look for some reason.

  3. Melody

    I thought this was to funny, I was just reading the history of Mongolia. 🙂 I am doing research on teaching abroad, and I love reading your blog.

  4. ATLSis

    Lord ..all of those hot guys on this blog is just too much for me..lol. just joking. Anywho. I’ve always been into other races of men since I was a kid and Asian men were no exception to the rule. I also agree with you about Asian males becoming the New Sexy.It should have been that way for them a long time ago.

  5. blackandyellow

    Ms. Jo,

    Just what I needed on a dreary afternoon. Had to peek at the guy in the shower through my hands tho. Made me blush. I kinda think that Asian men are the “New Sexy.”

  6. Regina

    All those men and not enough women. What a dream come true. If I lived in China, I would be up to no good. I’m a 5’2” so I like men short, tall and everything in between.

  7. Sunny

    I love your blog! I am the quiet follower but I have posted a comment before but I had to say something in response to this post! OH MY…I am a Black woman and I love Asian men…fanning myself over here! Unfortunately, I live in the US and in the wrong state so it’s hard to find them…the ones who have not been brainwashed by the stereotypes. I must agree again that there are some fine Asian men out there!!

  8. Lol You’re something else! I love this post. One of my ex’s is Filipino, and I tend to like men who are on the darker side (I like ’em tall too and not too skinny!) So to me, Mongolia, ‘farther north and waay down south” as you put it sound delicious to me. 😛

  9. Lord have mercy..your killing with those pictures. girl you had me cracking up. My husband kept asking me what was i laughing at. Cant wait to go and get an eyeful lol. Geat blog btw.

    1. I think it is more the … stereotypes… they haven’t seen the various types of Asian men.. so they assume all are bookish, small and not very man-ly. However, what they dont know is they come in all shapes and sizes.. and they would be amazed if they saw how big some of them are. I think it is a media thing… Asian men get a bum rap when it come to being sexy…. But there are more of them than any other kind of men… so .. Asian men are going to be the New Sexy…. trust me.

  10. haha funny post – I just found your blog!

    I’ve been keeping up one of my own, and it’s been hard finding blogs of people in China posting about being in China….most of them seem to be looking back on it or looking forward to it (which is where I’m at…I’m gonna be going back to teach after studying there for six months)

    Where I was at in the Northwest, guys were definitely a little more stocky and less delicate…..the girls that I hung out with were always talking about doing to Guangdong or Zhejiang to find a man hahaha

    I’ve subscribed – can’t wait to hear more from you!

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