My Research….

What a day… I just wrote this post and it didn’t save so now I am writing it again… arggggg.

I am sorry for the long hiatus, but i have been out researching things to put in my blogs.  I have also been busy with life.  But in my travels recently, I happened to do my own informal survey.  Yes, I asked 10 Chinese men between the ages of 18 and 40 years old. Some questions and you will be totally surprised by the answer they gave me.  Enjoy!

Do you like foreign women? Why?  Every man said yes, yes, and yes.  They think foreign women have the sexiest bodies, are the most beautiful and they love how direct we are about what we want.   We are their fantasy women.

Would you every date or marry a foreign woman?   The younger men said yes without a doubt if they would have me.   The older men were a little iffy. They seemed to think there would be problems with the cultural differences and language barriers.   They seemed much more traditional thinking.

Would you ever date a Black Foreign woman?  This was a bag of mixed answers.  Some of them said skin color doesn’t matter, some if she was beautiful… other were a definite No and one guy said… “If she looked like you”….. (he was a sweetie….hehehe).  It seemed all were a little worried about the social opinions of what would happen if they dated a Black woman.

What do you think about Foreign women in bed?This question got giggles and blushes all around.  They all seemed to agree on the fact that Foreign women are very strong in bed.   They believe the sexual appetite is probably more than they could handle but they would like to give it a try.   They also went on to explain what they wanted to do…. I will not share that part… they seemed to be drinking a bit when I asked them.  (smile)

Why don’t you approach Foreign women directly?  They all seem a little concerned with getting rejected.  They seem to feel that Foreign women are not attracted to Chinese men.  They think it is because their penis is too small or they are not very big men so cannot satisfy foreign women the way foreign men can.   So… fear is the common deterrent.

What don’t you like in foreign women?  They gave various answers. Some say they don’t like loud and rude women.  Others said they don’t like controlling women or bossy women.  Some say they don’t like women that cheat or flirt with a lot of men.   They don’t like a woman who is too fat or taller than them.    They don’t like women that are only after money and disrespect them in public.

What do you like about foreign women?  They are very sexy and direct.  They all mentioned this.  They all said they like the fact that they marry for love and are devoted to their husbands and really care about them.

Well there you have it ladies….. We win…. Chinese men think we are awesome and really are interested in us.   From my experiences, other Asian men feel the same way.   This last month my hubby has been away in Hong Kong on business…. so I decided to go out to the bars and see the scenery.   I haven’t been in a while since I am a devoted wife and all… (smile) … Anyway… I noticed that there were many, many very handsome men out.. and many of them were interested in me????   I was totally surprised.   They didn’t care my skin color, they didn’t care my size and they didn’t care my age they only wanted to get to know me better.   I felt like a supermodel.   (hehehe) If I were still single I would have had a date every night of the week.   They were funny and throwing out all kinds of compliments with the free drinks they were offering.   Although, they were probably high on liquid courage… I could see that they were very interested.

So.. women….if you were worried about Chinese men liking foreign women…. this just in…. They like us… they REALLY like us…..(smile)

until next time….

15 thoughts on “My Research….

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  2. anna

    a survey of 10 men? are hilarious!
    and not all foreign women have bangin bodies..that is such a huge generalization…i’ve seen many out of shape foreign women.

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  4. Interesting post. I’m always curious about how men view American women (Black women in particular). I’m not surprised by the fact that the younger generation is a bit more open-minded. It was always interested seeing that they seemed concerned what other people would think if they dated a Black woman. That’s not my personality. I’m someone who doesn’t give a shit what other people think of what’s going on in my personal life *shrugs*

    It takes someone who is open-minded, has the ability to think for himself and be his own man to win me over. That’s not always easy to find!

    1. In china there is a lot of social pressure. If you try to be an individual you can be shunned by society. That means no good job , no friends no good life. So here it is very important what people think or you. Not like the states. Even if they don’t want to follow the kind of half too if the want to be successful here.

      1. I don’t think I would do too good there then. I respect people’s differences and I realize there are cultural/social norms. I wouldn’t function too well in a relationship with a man who is under that kind of pressure.

  5. The Sally Field comment at the end got me laughing. I still think for a black female it is still a bit complicated, like a mixed bag of nuts,you never know. when I read your story and Esther’s, I get hope, I guess I just have to put myself out there and take a chance Even if I get a lot of boo-boos. They have cutesy band aids in China. I just want one right guy to see me for my inner beauty. the rest can ignore me. I really liked this post I found it insightful. I think my biggest fear is rejection.

    1. John, not all the foreign women living here likes Chinese men. However, you will find an overwhelming number are attracted to them. Some are attracted to the attentiveness they receive from them and others by the prospect of having beautiful, mixed babies. I have to say, although I married a Chinese man, the prospect of having beautiful babies came after. I was REALLY attracted to how delicately he treated me even though he is aware of my strength as a woman.

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